NO woman likes to think that her man might be cheating...
In fact, many wives (yours truly included) wear blinders regarding their husbands' behavior to keep from facing the facts of adultery.
But when a husband is cheating, there are things to look for that can clue women in.
Here is a list of things wives/girlfriends look for to find out if YOU are having an affair behind her back.
So, for the guys reading this, and visiting me....
DON'T DO THESE THINGS...
1. Unexplained absences.
Everyone enjoys time away from home when they can pursue hobbies or hang out with old friends. But if you have frequent absences for which you cannot offer a reasonable explanation, She will likely try to find out why. If you are cheating, you will likely do it during your non-working hours (unless you are involved with a coworker on company time), often after work or at night.
2. Receives and makes anonymous telephone calls.
Before caller ID, "the other woman" would call her married lover at home and hang up if the wife answered. Nowadays the third person can block her ID from being displayed on a phone. A discerning wife who believes she has a cheating spouse will check her husband's cell phone calls, both made and received, to see who he has been communicating with....
3. Dressing up when going out.
When a man pays more attention than usual to his appearance or grooming habits, there's a chance he's trying to impress someone, and it's usually a member of the opposite sex. If he takes greater care than previously with his looks, then he may be interested in another woman.
4. He has a history of deception.
If you've been caught lying, cheating or flirting in the past, she'll figure you may be involved in these behaviors again. She will be watching for cheating signs of possible fabrications, inaccuracies, slippery details, and so on. If you are a habitual lier, there is probably no help for you...
5. Leaving "cheating signs" in your personal belongings.
A scrap of paper with a phone number in your pocket, a lipstick smear on your collar or a hint of perfume on your shirt or in your hair may be indicators that you are up to no good.
Even if you haven't actually been unfaithful, there's a chance that you could be fooling around..and she's looking for those signs....TRUST ME....
6. You lost interest being intimate with your partner.
This is not a classic sign of infidelity, as some husbands enjoy having sexual relationships with their wives and lovers. But some spouses pay less attention than usual to their wives because they are caught up in the excitement of attracting other women, sometimes younger or prettier, but often similar in appearance to the wife. If you have not initiated physical relations as much as you used to, or act somewhat guilty or even impotent during time together with your partner , these will show up as signs to HER that you are cheating...
7. If you get asked if you are cheating.
When a husband is cheating, he often acts miserable and sometimes even leaves little hints in order to get the wife to confront him about it. If you are not cheating, She'll figure asking you outright can help to clear the air if the two of you have not been communicating well or have been struggling with conflicts recently.
She'll ask in a low-key way when no one else is around to avoid coming across as over-confrontational.
She wants to give you the benefit of the doubt unless the evidence is clear-cut or appears to be overwhelming.
She WILL check out alibis and explanations, and DON'T be surprised if you are asked to contact the other woman who has been named as the third party if that will help to clarify the situation....
So....Let's sum up...
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Don't leave phone numbers in your cell phone or credit card charges from restaurants you never took her to? |
Don't get a sudden urge to get into shape, unless you have been told by your doctor that you need to do this...This is one of the first things she looks for when she suspects you might be cheating....
Don't suddenly started wearing newer, hipper clothes....
Don't start working later at the office - and ask her not to drop by...
If you travel frequently on business - don't try to dissuade her from tagging along...
On weekends, (if you have never done this) don't tell her that you want to watch the game with the guys...she'll take that as "You are trying to get away from her to meet the other woman....
Don't seem uninterested in sex, or even with cuddling or holding hands......
Don't quickly hide your email when she comes into the room...
Don't appear bored or dissatisfied with your life with her....
Don't pick fights and/or complain that she is nagging you...
ONLY try and remember these things if you want to STAY married guys.....Because as much as I love being your playmate...I would not want anything in your home life to go sidewayz....
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