Follow these simple steps to a great time with a quality provider.

If you choose NOT to do your homework you will have no one to blame but yourself if you have a bad experience........

Initial Contact

This is the first hurdle to clear without falling flat on your face. If the site has an appointment request/contact me form, FILL IT OUT IN ENTIRELY, providing the requested information.

This is where many make their first mistake by not following instructions.

If you don't like a providers contact terms then move on. Otherwise, follow them.
If her form has a comment section whatever you say do not make any rude or sexually suggestive comments. T

o do so will insure you never here from the lady at all...

So what if she doesn't have a request form?
Well then it is time for that first email.

First off, keep it simple. In the Subject Line, a subject like: "Appointment request from Dayton" will get your email read. ..

Do NOT use subjects like, "I need it bad", In many cases it is an automatic deleted email..

In your e-mail keep it simple and tasteful..

Give her your contact and best time to call.
Most ladies are very good about returning respectable emails.

You should generally get a response in 48 hours or less.

Some have auto-response systems set up and the first email back may be that.

Some of these ladies are very busy.
Another delay in a reply maybe the lady is traveling, on vacation or on an extended appointment.

Just because she doesn't reply right away, doesn't mean bad news.

If you have no response after 3 days, you may try one more as sometimes they do get deleted by mistake...

Verification

Your Companion has answered your initial email or called you. Now comes the verification phase. If you've never seen a Companion and have no provider references, then she is going to ask for information that will prove you are not some government agency trying to entrap her.

Therefore the Companion is going to ask for what seems like personal information, work phone, company name, possibly who have you seen or who you know.
Don't fight it.
She's merely trying to protect herself and her clients (perhaps soon to be you) from potential problems.
Keep in mind she wants to make the appointment too and has a vested interest in "discretion". Some providers ask for little information, some ask for more. If you refuse to provide her with the information you can forget about an appointment with the lady. The Verification is a safety process you normally can't negotiate away.

There are Companions who will prefer to call rather than answer email if you left a contact number and a 'safe' time to call. Once this dialogue has been opened now is the time to find out more information about the lady.

Now is the time for YOU to ask questions. So, go ahead and ask them. She will answer, she wants to make you feel as safe and secure in seeing her as you made her feel in seeing you.

ONLY ask questions that ARE NOT on her website.
If it is, there is no greater way of saying, I'm an asshole, and didn't read your FAQ page, so I'm going to ask you questions you have painstakingly answered on your website.

If this is your first time, TELL HER.... ...Tell her your favorites, likes and dislikes.....Without being graphic...she can read between the lines.. Whatever you do...don't give her your whole life story ....If you are nervous be a MAN and tell her also. Most ladies are fantastic at putting you at ease, provided you have told them. This is not the time to be shy or tough it out!! Finalize the date, time, place and length of your meeting.

Meetings

Some Companions will only meet you in a public place the first time while others will come right to your room.

If her site doesn't cover it, politely ask "What are your first meeting policies".

This information is what you need to learn, during your communications leading up to your meeting. An important warning here is the lady may have given you her cell or other contact number. Now is NOT the time to become a NEEDY phone stalker. Some ladies are very talkative and will call you more than a few times. Others may only call once or twice. Follow her lead and respect her wishes...

The Big Day

Nothing can be stressed more here than be Clean.

Be freshly showered, brush your teeth, comb your hair, and

be dressed !!

Answering the door in your purple silk boxers works fine for scaring away Jehovah Witnesses but it is bad for a first meeting. The only pleasure you will have is watching her walk away; especially if this is your first time.

Be drug free and have nothing in the room if you partake in that sort of thing.

Falling down drunk is also a bad idea. Companions of a certain caliber will walk immediately if you fall into either two of these categories.

There she is, standing in the doorway, offer her your hand invite her in and offer her a seat. Ask if she wants something to drink.... Expect to sit and chat for a little bit to break the ice.... Have a glass of, juice, soda or wine..... However, don't be put off is she refuses alcoholic beverages nor push the issue.... Smile, respect it and have something else just in case.....

If the lady is coming to your hotel room, have her donation out in plain view, if you are coming to her place, place her donation on any nearby surface in her vivew....

Do NOT make her ask for her donation...

Whatever you do, don't ask so what am I getting for this?

That's what your research was for and any smart Companion will turn around and walk. Be a considerate client by having the donation in a white, unsealed envelope in plain sight is best. Some will excuse themselves and go to the bathroom to check all is in order. There are some Companions who will see the envelope but say nothing or even touch it till the end of the meeting.

After the small chit chat, the Companion may or may not excuse her self to the bathroom while telling you to "get comfortable".

This is your sign to "get undressed". Remember her boundaries and that No means No. If you're still nervous most ladies will sense this and lead you through. Remember attitude is key. If you are polite, act like a gentleman and treat the lady with respect and dignity, you are pretty much going to have a good time.

Expect Condoms to be used.

DONT EVEN ASK NOT TO!

If the lady offers a BBBJ, only you can decide if you can accept the risk. Some ladies will, some ladies won't. If you can't accept the risk, ask her to use a condom.

Some ladies will kiss, some won't.

All of these things should be no surprise to you if you have done your homework. Expect some more small talk at the end. If you are the type who writes reviews ask her if you may write one, if you don't write reviews then just don't offer. Some ladies will ask you to write a review. If you're not comfortable writing one just let her know. Don't promise one and fail to follow up. Other ladies will not want a review no matter what. Respect her wishes here.

Some Companions require no tipping, however it is ALWAYS a good idea, especially if she has gone extra mile. Let's be honest, he who tips best, get the best service in the long run. The Companions always appreciate them.

Follow Up

Some clients send a short email within a couple of days thanking the companion for the time spent. This is the polite thing to do and it keeps the door open for future meetings. When dealing with an agency it's not unheard of to call and let them know you were pleased. After all every legitimate business owner wants constructive feed back.

The follow up doesn't mean send an email everyday or a phone call either. Just a short Thank you till the next time will do. The Bottom line is to treat the Companion like a lady, with dignity and the way you expect to be treated. Act with kindness, manners and respect and the respect will be returned by the Companion. If you have taken the time to research and find a Companion who fits your needs, there is no reason you should not have an enjoyable experience.

Deliciously Addicting

Initial Contact

Verification

Meetings

The Big Day

Follow Up